Embraceable You

Little brothers~

I’m a hugger. Like my dad, I love people.

When I hug someone, once in a while there’s a little confusion as to where each of us will place our arms.

Sometimes it gets funny. But no matter what, there’s always a smile going on as we settle into a brief, warm hug that whispers of caring.

Did you know that there’s apparently a science to the action of hugging? I’d heard of it but hadn’t paid much attention to it until I decided to write this post.

Go here to find the fun wikiHow hug website. It shows you—with accompanying drawings—just how to hug everyone . . . properly!

It made me smile and even laugh out loud at some of the cute demos, though it still didn’t show me if there’s a preferred way to put my arms around someone. ☺


Now if you want to get all scientific . . . when you hug, there’s a release of oxytocin, the “cuddle hormone” that makes us feel good, and then there’s the stress hormone, cortisol that’s reduced, which is a good thing. No in-depth study here, but I’m sure there are probably more good things that happen, like endorphins . . . maybe more.

But when He made us, God knew we just needed love (plus, the oxytocin and cortisol were His ideas in the first place!).

Don’t ever stop embracing one another. It’s so important to show love and that’s just one small way to say “I love you” or “I think you’re a really wonderful person” or “I truly appreciate our friendship” or “I’m so sorry for your loss” or “I’m so happy to see you.” I may feel all the love, care and compassion in the world, but unless I tell you or show you, you might never know that I feel that way.

You can blow all the air kisses you want to, but love or just sweet friendship shown in a hug is incomparable.

Here’s some of what the Word has to say about embracing others,
like your Relatives:


“Then it came to pass, when Laban heard the report about Jacob his sister’s son,
that he ran to meet him, and embraced him and kissed him, and brought him to his house.
So he told Laban all these things” (Genesis 29:13).

Brothers: “But Esau ran to meet him, and embraced him, and fell on his neck
and kissed him, and they wept” (Genesis 33:4).

Fathers and sons: “Now the eyes of Israel were dim with age, so that he could not see.
Then Joseph brought them near him, and he kissed them and embraced them” (Genesis 48:10).

Spouse: “His left hand is under my head, and
his right hand embraces me” (Song of Solomon 2:6). Disciples/Friends: “After the uproar had ceased, Paul called the disciples to
himself, embraced them, and departed to go to Macedonia” (Acts 20:1).

Bye, Grandpa.

“A new commandment I give to you, that you love one another; as I have loved you, that you also love one another. By this all will know that you are My disciples, if you have love for one another” (John 13:34-35 NKJV).

Hugs are small and free and warm and loving and one way to obey that commandment.

How do you feel about hugs?


8 thoughts on “Embraceable You

  1. Thanks for a really good comment, Sharon! I agree that some folks simply aren’t huggers. In fact I was once in a discussion about hugging where a woman shivered and said she couldn’t handle being hugged. So important to be very sensitive to the body language of others. I’ve learned there are times when restraint and refraining are very much in order.☺

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  2. I love hugs. My husband doesn’t even seem to like being touched, so I seek out hugs from friends and sisters and brothers in the Lord. THis was a great article, especially with the link. It’s also neat to get a text message with tons of parenthesis around a word to indicate being loved and hugged!

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  3. Hi Kathy, That link was fun! Pretty cute for something wiki.☺ It is good to get those cyber hugs too. We always seem to come up with something to express ourselves, don’t we, So glad you enjoyed the post!


  4. I grew up in a household where my mom and I freely hugged each other as best friends and I have always been demonstrative of how I feel about a person. I don’t hug everyone, needless to say, but I know we don’t live forever and now is the time to reach out to those who matter. Too bad I wasn’t able to share this with my followers.

    Paulette Motzko

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    • Thanks for following the blog and for commenting, Paulette! You’re right, now’s the time to reach out and show you care.Too often we miss those chances. I stopped by your blog and enjoyed reading of your special childhood friendship. Friendships like that impact our lives is so many positive ways.

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  5. Sally, thanks a million! With such detailed instructions, I should be able to do this. I’ve printed it off and will take some time to absorb and then give it a try. I owe you, my friend! Pat Luffman Rowland  Prayerful Ponderinghttp://patluffmanrowland.com

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    • Hi Pat. I’m glad to be of help to you. Good photos make better blogs and giving those talented photographers credit through attribution is a must. But you don’t owe me a thing! ☺ Love your blog!


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